About He
My turn to post about He :)I'm the luckiest woman in that I've found my other half. Not many people can say that. It's true we are best friends ... I tell him everything. I share everything with him I just can't imagine it being any other way.
Yes, we have a few things working against us. One ... obvious we are both married (and not to each other). Before we even met one another (as friends) ... our marriages were done. They were done in terms of emotional connection, intimacy issues and romantic love for the spouses. Mine has been this way for 5+ years. I dare say that He's has been that way longer. The geographical distance is another issue. We aren't on other coast lines (thank god!). Just a nice long drive away from one another (if we chose to drive). But we tend to fly when we see each other so it's a very short flight. We do try to see each other as much as possible ... and right now we are working on seeing each other again. I guess you can say that we are ALWAYS working on seeing each other.
We will be together one day soon. He's worth the wait. He tells me the same thing. I'm his and he is mine ... but we are working towards the day when that becomes a day to day reality.
To be clear ... I'm the one who found him ;) I like reminding him of that from time to time. There was an immediate click there. The first time we had a conversation with one another I think it lasted about two hours. One of those times when you look at the clock thinking you've only been talking a few minutes. We flirted ... a lot. He's good at it ;) Honestly, we're not really sure which one of us crossed that line. I think it was a mutual decision but honestly we're still trying to figure out when it occurred. But as He says ... "But when we did cross the line…WOW did we cross it. And, I'll take the chance of speaking for both of us and say that we couldn't be happier as a result." ... He is so right on. I could not be happier.
I'm just going to agree with everything He said about the sex. Easily the best sex I've ever had. I love how he pushes me ... how he's so aggressive and yet can be so loving and gentle. I feel so safe when he wraps his arms around me and holds me until I calm down. He can wrap his arms all the way around my body and I feel so small in comparison to him. I like that he feels larger than life. I wouldn't have it any other way.
He has managed to make my life at home easier to deal with (although it's never THAT easy). He makes me happy ... I swear I've never laughed so much or smiled so much since I've known this man. He tells me daily how beautiful I am ... or how sexy I am. Something I'm not used to hearing ... but he's making it easier for me.
Our story is just beginning. But I am happy to share it with readers who come across and read our blog. And to quote He ... "We recognize and accept that there will be more than a few people who disagree with our choice to be friends and lovers…for those of you that fit that description, please keep your opinions to yourselves. The focus here is on our relationship TOGETHER." I couldn't have said it better myself!!!!

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